I get that John and don't disagree.
But in this case, the primary issue may be that you may be feeding a diseased mind rather than facilitating a cordial discourse. The overriding issues may be larger than a topical forum discussion.

Using a reward system akin to training a pet may not work.

By the way, was it not you who suggested I should press the ignore button in his case?

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