thanks Heidi

we have actually worked out the best possible arrangement-we live in different states and always have except for 6 months of hell in DC long ago-lol....

I do wish him well of course-but it took me 10 years of Al-A non meetings to keep some sanity while he was drinking and there aint-to my knowledge-such a support group for the victims of holy rollers-lol.......good luck with your advice column and the exciting world of show biz in Las Vegas.......

Tom