Hi Dan,

It has been a long time ago..and writing about it comes easier now. I figure that someday if any of my songs about this ever get to radio...the guys may hear themselves immortalized in song, and that would give me great pleasure (perhaps that is bad to admit, but it is true). [Linked Image] Abuse changes you permanently. You never can get away from how it makes you feel about you. That is the worst scar of all. You can't change what happened...but you can change how you respond to it. If you let it make you negative, you only hurt yourself more. I have chosen not to allow that to happen. I have chosen to use the experience to learn and grow. It is also one of the reasons I tend to write songs that are happier, or at least have a happy ending. I spent way too much time dealing with the pain, and don't need to go there again. If I can help some other women with my songwriting, I would love to. Thanks for stopping by on this one. Might be tough for guys to relate to it...but I do also know there are men who are abused also. Just do not believe Dawg if he says he is one of 'em! [Linked Image]

Bobbie

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