Jan,

Sounds like you have a lot going on. That is exactly what you have to do. Just remember the four basic tenets of the music industry:

#1 Creation of the song.
Create something unique and interesting. Make it stand out among all the competition. Get and keep people's attention.

#2 Presentation of the song.
Make sure it is performed well. Make sure the demos and any representation is he best it can be. Make it radio ready.

#3 Networking.
Make sure you meet as many people as you can, write with as many as you can. Stay at it, make friends and have fun.

#4 Business.
Do all of the first three and hopefully you will get chances to make money or at least be in the game.

That is what we do here and sounds like what you are doing there. I applaud you.

MAB