Hey Al,

I'm so glad sharing our experience with Samantha has given you a little encouragement...that was my intent smile. I'm a firm believer in Knowledge Is Power....and though I know everyone reacts to these sorts of situations differently, I had no doubt you'd be interested in hearing possibly pertinent information. It is such a physically and emotionally draining experience...we found that by having a bit of an idea about what to expect, you can at least regain some sense of control....

In fact, the importance of this sort of "outreach" can't be underestimated. Our surgeon -- who performed only the second surgery of it's kind on Samantha -- has put us on a "referral list" for parents of his patients, so we can give them the inside track. And no holds barred -- he has given us license to tell the good, the bad, and the ugly. Not only about what to expect immediately post-operatively and MEDICALLY during their stay...but also non-medical tips: like which P/T's they should angle for (if possible), a bit about the different nurses, the best times to go to the cafeteria, and even how in a weird way, it can feel like Las Vegas...no windows, you're there 24/7, and you have no idea if it's day or night.

I'm sorry to have digressed so much, so let me just reiterate my hopes for a peaceful resolution of these current circumstances. Whether it's your daughter or your wife, the uncertainty can be agonizing. Please know that we're all sending prayers and positive energy your way, and look forward to hearing more good news.

Hang in there...

xoxo,
Beth

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