John............... I guess I'm thinking more of describing what happens in horrible relationships (not just romantic, but parents and kids).... cus if you're raised to think something is normal.. and then they say I Love you.. then that's what you think love is.

Then you get older and find someone who truly loves you, respects you and cares, THAT'S how you know what love is, because you certainly know what it's not.


"It Mattered to THAT One"